Having an honest conversation with your children about drugs and alcohol is an important part of your role as a parent. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration recommends that you begin talking to your children before they’re exposed to drugs and alcohol. Teen drug use can start at a young age, so it is important to have a conversation early. Children as young as about 9 years old can benefit from their parents talking to them about drugs. 

When Kids First Try Drugs

According to teen drug statistics, the average age at which teens use marijuana for the first time is 14, and youth can begin using alcohol before turning 12. Research also shows that children as young as 9 start to develop positive feelings about alcohol. Having a conversation about drug and alcohol use around this age can change these positive feelings and help youth to understand the risks of alcohol use. 

Kids smoking also begins at an early age. Statistics show that nearly 90% of smokers tried their first cigarette by the time they reached the age of 18, so it is common for smoking to begin in the adolescent years. One study found that the average age at which youth begin smoking is 17.9 years, and additional research shows that approximately 8% of high schoolers smoked cigarettes in the past month. Electronic cigarette use is also becoming more popular among teens, with data showing that about one-fifth of high school students are current users of these products. 

How to Talk to Kids About Drugs

With teen cigarette, alcohol and marijuana use beginning early, it is important to have a conversation about the dangers of substance abuse with adolescents. If you’re wondering how to talk to your kids about drugs, the first step is to plan ahead and determine what you want to say during the conversation. Next, sit down with your child and tell them that you are having a conversation because you care about them and want them to be safe and healthy. It is important to avoid making accusations and allow your child to have an opportunity to speak and ask questions. 

Topics during this conversation can include the effects of teen drug abuse and the risks of drugs and alcohol. For example, you can discuss with your child that underage drinking is linked to serious consequences, such as risky sexual activity, suicidal behaviors and alcohol dependence during adulthood. You can also inform your teen that research shows that drug and alcohol abuse during youth is associated with brain changes that can have a negative effect on the way they think and behave as an adult. While these conversations may be difficult, they are important to have because communication between children and parents can significantly reduce teen drug and alcohol use. 

While prevention is the primary goal of talking to teens about drugs and alcohol, there may be times when you suspect drug or alcohol use and need to have a conversation to confront your teen’s substance abuse. If you suspect that your teen is using drugs, The Recovery Village is ready to take your phone call to provide support and discuss treatment options. Reach out to our caring admissions department today to learn more.

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